Cities for Swingers

The Top 6 US Cities for Swingers

Whether you live in the United States or are simply deciding where to visit the next time you’re across the pond, these are the top cities to check out, according to real swingers. Sure, there are plenty of swinger guides out there, but you can’t always trust those recommendations. Many are funded by groups that promote bias towards specific locations as swinger capitals to benefit from tourist dollars. On the other hand, our guide is written by Adult FriendFinder members who aim to assist swingers in finding the best parties and the most exciting hookup events nationwide.

  1. New York City, NY

The decline of the Big Apple was greatly exaggerated in many ways, including the swinging lifestyle. New York has always had it all because of its enormous population and so many interesting places to meet people. From Central Park to private parties in luxurious Park Place penthouse apartments, there is always ample opportunity to meet others seeking no-strings-attached arrangements, dates, and group hookups in the Empire State and its central hub of Manhattan.

  1. Las Vegas, NV

Known for the glamour and opulence of big casinos, luxurious clubs, and showgirls, the popular saying “what happens in Vegas stays in Vegas” applies to your swinging life as well. It’s a big city with a lot of hot people and even sexier parties going on at all hours of the day and night.

  1. Albuquerque, NM

The ABQ might not be the first place that comes to mind among people new to the poly lifestyle, but there is now (and always has been) a thriving swinger community in New Mexico. Perhaps it’s the green chili in the food, or maybe it’s the wide-open spaces that lead residents to crave adventure–either way, Albuquerque is a place you should definitely consider visiting.

  1. Chicago, IL

The Windy City got its name from the strong air currents coming from nearby lakes, but the towering buildings aren’t the only thing getting blown in Chi-town. A great group of swingers lives in Chicago, and many traveling circuit parties go through the town from time to time. But what caught our attention was just how much more organized the swinger events seem to be. It’s so easy to find swinger events online and then head out for a night or weekend of wonderful sex not long after.

  1. Los Angeles, CA

Los Angeles is a great swinger city for completely different reasons. Many of those same people are blowing off a little steam at swinger parties all around the valley.

  1. Portland, OR

Commonly referred to as “the place where 30-year-olds go to retire,” Portland, OR, was recently put on the map by the popular comedy series Portlandia. Long before that, the city was generally known for three things: the best bookstore in the country, Voodoo Doughnut, and a massive number of swingers in a relatively small population. If you visit Portland and talk to a dozen people during your vacation, you’ll probably have spoken with 8 or 9 swingers along the way.

What are some of your favorite cities to visit as members of the sex and swinging community?