Some people believe that orgasm is the ultimate goal of sexual experience. This may not apply to everyone, but I think we can all agree that orgasms are often the desired outcome of sex, no matter who you are. While most of us associate orgasmic pleasure with the physical contact needed to achieve orgasm, some people associate orgasm without physical contact. A deeper investigation is certainly needed to find out if such a big claim is true and how it works.
Celebrities say they can “think” about themselves
Lady Gaga and TikTok influencer Maya Ansar says she can “think for herself” and insists she doesn’t need physical stimulation to orgasm. Maya Ansar revealed in a recent interview with Vice that she discovered she could “do anything” years ago. According to the interview, Ansar often orgasms in his dreams and soon realizes that he can achieve the same when he wakes up.
In the early 1990s, research showed that women could orgasm without physical stimulation. To date, the ability to orgasm without physical contact has not been proven in humans, but much research is still early and ongoing.
People who orgasm this way say it provides many of the same sensations as orgasms induced by physical contact, but there can be some nuance. Regardless, all bodies are equally capable of orgasm, and that’s what most people mean when they talk about orgasm. “They want to feel good, and people use their thoughts to feel good,” he said.
Some people train themselves to orgasm without physical contact through dreams
The way to orgasm without physical contact is different for each person. However, many people eventually realize that they begin to have sexual dreams in order to learn how to stimulate themselves without touching.
Most people have some kind of sexual dream in their life. Sometimes the dreams are unpleasant, but more often they are pleasant and harmless events. After waking up from a dream, some people find that their body and mind respond physiologically to the dream. This physical response cannot be controlled, but the sensation is usually pleasant. This dream could be the best way to help people understand how to achieve orgasm without physical contact.
Connecting the mind and spirit to another sexual experience is said to be the best expression of all that is good about sex. Combining the physical pleasure of sex with the mental and even spiritual connection created through non-physical stimulation allows people to enjoy the full sexual experience.
Next time you wake up from a dream about sex, you should record as many sensations as you can and store them somewhere in your brain. This may be the only time you experience an immaterial orgasm while awake.
What was it like?
People who have never experienced a physically stimulating orgasm are often surprised at what they feel and want. To understand the experience, we must rely on those who have enjoyed it.
Several people told Bustle about their experience and they all had individual orgasm results. Here are some:
- It feels like an electric current runs through her body – that’s how Alicia Von says she can orgasm by waiting for her partner’s touch. She describes orgasm without physical stimulation as “a full-body experience that nothing she knows can be reproduced.”
- My orgasms are triggered by words – Tanya Simirenko told the magazine that just by swearing, she can reach into her body and have an orgasm without placing a finger on her body.
- Hypnosis is the unexpected opening to an immaterial orgasm – Felicity, 29, said she reached a full orgasm after watching a video about hypnosis designed to help people achieve it.
If you’ve never experienced an immaterial orgasm, this idea may seem a bit foreign to you. However, this is another aspect of human sexuality that can be interesting. That may not be possible for everyone, not everyone may want to, but it’s good to know that it’s possible for those who want to try.