Some people believe that an orgasm is the end objective for any sexual experience. While that may not be true for every single individual, it is generally agreed that having an orgasm is normally the wanted result of a sexual encounter, regardless of who you are. Although most of us associate the pleasure of having an orgasm with the physical touch used to reach that point, some claim they can achieve an orgasm without physical contact. This claim requires further exploration to determine if it holds true and how it might be possible.
Big-name celebrities like Lady Gaga and TikTok influencer Maya Ansar say they can “believe” themselves off, insisting that they require no physical stimulation of any kind to reach the point of orgasm. According to an interview with Vice, Ansar found out a few years ago that she could “think herself off.” In the early nineties, research emerged that indicated women could reach orgasm without physical stimulation. So far, the same ability to have an orgasm without physical touch has not been observed in men, but much of the research is still preliminary and ongoing.
People who can achieve an orgasm this way say that it provides many of the same sensations that an orgasm generated by physical touch does, but there may be some slight differences. The ability to feel an orgasm throughout their body remains the same, which is what most people care about when they are talking about achieving orgasm in the first place. They want it to feel good, and those who make it happen with their mind say that it does.
The path to orgasming without physical touch is not the same for everyone. Many people who eventually reach this goal say they use their sexy dreams as a starting point for learning how to stimulate themselves without touch. These dreams might be the best way to help someone understand how they can reach the point of orgasm without physical touch.
Some people say that connecting the mind and soul to the rest of the sexual experience is the ultimate manifestation of all that is good about sex. Combining the physical pleasure gained from sex with the mental and even spiritual connections made through non-physical stimulation allows them to enjoy the overall sexual experience in a much more satisfying way.
The next time you wake up from an erotic dream, it may be helpful to try to capture as much of that feeling as you can and save it somewhere in your mind. It might be just what you need to experience the sensation of having a non-physically stimulated orgasm in your waking hours.
Those who have not yet experienced a non-physically stimulated orgasm often question what the sensation is like and whether it is something they really want. To understand the experience, we need to rely on those who have enjoyed this sensation before.
A few people talked to Bustle about their experiences, and all had personalized results from this type of orgasm. Here are a few of them:
- “It feels like electricity in my body” – This was the sentiment of Alicia Davon, who specified that she could reach the point of orgasm just by expecting her partner’s touch. She refers to non-physically induced orgasms as “a whole-body experience that cannot be duplicated by anything else that she knows of.”
- “My orgasms are caused through words” – Tania Simirenko informed the magazine that she can reach the point of orgasm through dirty talk alone and can have an orgasm without laying a single finger on her body.
- “Hypnosis was my unexpected introduction to non-physical orgasms” – 29-year-old Felicity says she had a full-body orgasm after watching hypnotic videos intended to help people climax.
If you have never had a non-physically induced orgasm, you might find the idea a little odd. However, it is simply another layer of human sexuality that can be enjoyable and fulfilling. It may not be possible for everyone to achieve, and it may not even be something everyone wants to do, but it is great to know that it is possible for those who want to try.
While most of us associate the pleasure of having an orgasm with the physical touch used to reach that point, some claim they can achieve an orgasm without physical contact. Woman Gaga and TikTok influencer Maya Ansar say they can “think” themselves off, insisting that they need no physical stimulation of any kind to reach the point of orgasm. People who can achieve an orgasm this way say that it provides many of the same sensations that an orgasm generated by physical touch does, but there may be some slight differences. The ability to feel an orgasm throughout their body remains the same regardless, and that is what most people care about when they are talking about achieving orgasm in the first place. These experiences may be the best way to help somebody understand how they can reach the point of orgasm without physical touch.