As a member of Grownup NaughtyFriendGirl, you’ve likely already experienced the benefits of having access to unbiased people from around the world. Now, you may be asking yourself how you can stand out from the crowd and amass the widespread attention you deserve. Developing a blog on Grownup NaughtyFriendGirl may be the easiest way to get attention and make your voice heard in the world’s biggest sex-positive community.
Think of your blog as an extension of your profile. Instead of just showing people how you look and providing them with some basic statistics about yourself, you can use your blog to help potential members better understand what you enjoy and how your mind works.
Your blog keeps you current. When someone sees your profile statistics, they might wonder if the information you have listed is still up-to-date. When they see a new blog post, they know your information is current, and they can see your way of looking at the world right now, as opposed to how you felt about things years ago. As your dating horizons expand, so does your blog.
Your blog can set the mood. Are you looking for a romantic date? Interested in casual sex with a new partner? Have a fantasy you want to explore for the first time with someone patient? Your blog can explain that to potential partners browsing your profile, which helps you sort out real potential dates from the rest of the pack. Sharing your interests and what excites you is another way to find the right dates even faster.
Amateur erotica does not require a license. You can’t take a class on blogging about what you think is hot, as you’re the only arbiter of that domain. Many people think erotica is only written by professional authors and that their own skills are somehow inadequate. Your blog is the perfect place to showcase your own amateur sensual fiction, and with a little practice, you’ll find your voice on the page pretty quickly. Here are some valuable tips:
- Start by discussing something that actually happened. Pure fiction is actually much more difficult to write than truth, with a few embellishments to enhance the story. Those moments are great starting points for your most exciting blog posts.
- Exclude what isn’t sexy. In your story about having sex on a pool table after hours in a trendy hotel, you don’t need to mention the part about the lube bottle spilling out all over the carpet unless you believe that adds something sexy to your story. Arguments and “make up sex” are common themes, but your blog should be much less about the argument and far more about the make-up sex!
- Make sure the story is true to your desires. What you write on your blog should always be about what you think is sexy right now. For example, if you used to be into cosplay, a new post about your past cosplay sexual experiences is likely to attract potential partners who want to try cosplay with you now – even if that’s not what you enjoy anymore. Keep your blog current with themes, ideas, kinks, and come-ons that match your current state of mind, so you’re attracting the kind of people who share your sentiment and can provide you with fuel for many blog stories to come.
- Practice Makes Perfect. Read your blog after you write it. Try to read it as if you were seeing the words for the very first time and see if it elicits the kind of reaction in you that you want to evoke in others. If it doesn’t, don’t worry, that just means you may need to reword part of it or write about something else instead. Nobody expects your initial draft to be perfect. The simple truth is, the more you write, the better you get at it, and each new story or blog post you publish will be better than the last. Enjoy the process, be excited to share your stories, and help your potential dates discover who you are.
If You Do It Right, You’ll Also Have an Orgasm
Your blog doesn’t have to be some PG nonsense. Go ahead and show your potential dates that you have what it takes to make any date memorable and enjoy your own posts as much as they will.
When they see a new blog post, they know your information is up-to-date, and they can see your current worldview, as opposed to how you felt about things years ago. Your blog can communicate that to potential mates looking at your profile, which helps you sort out genuine potential dates from the rest of the pack. What you write on your blog should always be about what you find sexy right now. Keep your blog current with trends, ideas, kinks, and come-ons that match your current state of mind, so you’re attracting the kind of people who share your sentiments and can provide you with fuel for many blog stories to come.
The simple truth is, the more you write, the better you get at it, and each new story or blog post you publish will be better than the last.