Anyone who has ever masturbated knows that one or two people are too few for a quality orgy. However, if you have been to a large sex party and felt a bit out of place, then you also know that hundreds of people make an orgy much less intimate than you may desire. How many people should you invite to your next orgy, and what else should you know about creating a great guest list that will satisfy every individual?
Planning an orgy takes time, consideration, and tact. There are various ways to plan one, so if you are interested in hosting an orgy, the tips below can help you start. In orgies, consent is crucial, as is trust. While some people prefer to have orgies with strangers, others only invite individuals they know and trust.
Space is a Consideration
Many people consider five to be the minimum number of participants for an orgy. Three individuals make a threesome, four make a foursome, and five or more make an orgy. Some people choose to put placemats and mat covers on the floor, another option for creating more space where multiple people can roll around at once.
If you are thinking about having an orgy and do not mind who hosts the event, you can talk among the individuals involved to determine the perfect space among those available. Remember that if you do not know someone well, you might want to do some vetting before considering their location for your next orgy.
Consider Developing Safety Procedures
Will your orgy require individuals to have condoms and switch between partners? Are you going to be asking for a current STI test? People have different needs when it comes to setting up an orgy. Those who are considering attending will have questions. They will want to know about safe sex practices, and they will also want to know about how you are vetting individuals for the party. Collect your thoughts on these things and communicate them to your guests beforehand so they can be prepared.
The Right Number of People for an Orgy– It’s About the People
The best number of people for an orgy is also affected by who is there. If one individual is drawing the positive energy out of the room, one less individual (that one) might be better.
Sending Invitations
To keep an ideal number of people in the orgy, you will want to limit the numbers. If you are inviting friends and friends of friends, select two or three people to invite first, and ask them if they have people they vouch for who would also like to attend.
Ensuring that everyone has somebody they are least familiar with beyond themselves can help increase comfort levels and get the action going quicker.
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Do not Start Too Big
Orgies have many moving parts, and one mistake people make is trying to plan an orgy that is much bigger than they can handle easily on a first go-ahead. It also takes time to figure out the appropriate amount of people for the space.
Having too many people in the space can make it hard to have the sexual fun you want to have. Remember, people need to move around and get into different positions. There should also be an area dedicated to socializing for people who need a break or are not interested in watching other naked people have sex for the entirety of the night.
On the other hand, if you have enough space for a few people, the party can feel empty, which can detract from the mood for some individuals who may feel like “hardly anyone showed up.” Starting small allows you to ease these fears. One way people deal with this is by starting with a group of four people they know will attend. Then invite a few more people, and remember that even if only three or four people show up, great group sex can still occur. If you have enough space for more than five people, take the time to invite an additional two or three individuals as not everyone will be able to come to your event each time.
Final Notes
Furthermore, there may be more individuals overall. When deciding on the number of people to invite, consider the specific genders attending. In orgies, people touch each other’s bodies, and gender is often not an issue.
Once your plan is in place, you’re ready to get started!
While some individuals prefer to have orgies with strangers, others only invite people they know and trust. If you’re inviting friends and friends of friends, choose two or three people to invite first, and ask them if they know anyone who would also like to attend and can vouch for them.
One way people deal with this is by starting with four individuals they know will show up. Invite a few more people, and remember that even if only three or four people show up, great group sex can still happen. In orgies, people touch each other’s bodies, and gender is often not an issue.